I got a phone call from my insurance agent today wanting me to confirm my new address.

The SO’s insurance is through them too.  They know that we are together.  The phone call was very tentative until I confirmed the address.  Then there was relief.  “Oh, good!  We knew he had moved and the post office said you did too but…”

“But you didn’t want to change it until you were sure that I hadn’t kicked him out and sent him to live in a different part of the state?”